Have you ever said that to yourself? I have. In fact, I used to say that all the time!
I never felt like I was able to get what I wanted in life. I felt like life was a ‘set up’ – designed specifically to set me up as a failure.
And every time I struggled with something, someone around me would say “Maybe it wasn’t meant to be.”
And worse! I said it myself… many times! UGH!
Just recently, I had a Reboot Your Brain Complimentary Strategy session scheduled with someone overseas. Unfortunately, we had internet issues and had to reschedule.
And he said at the end “Maybe it wasn’t meant to be, again.”
Not only did he say one of the most disempowering phrases on the planet, he added the word “AGAIN.”
I felt so bad for him!
Not only did he give away all his power, he sent himself the subconscious message that this will always happen to him.
Here’s the deal.
You can’t always control what happens… like the weather… or a poor internet connection.
…but there is one thing that is ALWAYS in your control…
You ALWAYS have the CHOICE on how to respond to these events!
And if you give up, and say “maybe it wasn’t meant to be,” you’ve completely given away all your power… you’ve blamed the ‘great unknown’ for your struggles… you’ve not taken responsibility to get what you want in life!
And worst of all … you create a vicious downward cycle … and the next time, you will give up sooner, and you will give away more of what you want!
Jernej – If you are out there reading this, don’t give up on your dreams!
And for the rest of you… eliminate “maybe it wasn’t meant to be” from your vocabulary! If it’s important to you, step back and re-assess, and find another way!
I’ve had to do this many times in my life, and I can tell you with absolute certainty, it wasn’t until I stopped using excuses, and started stepping into my power, that I was able to create financial success, loving relationships, and a beautiful and crazy life that I love.
This is just one of the many concepts I teach in my Reboot Your Brain program. It’s made up of three main components: (1) Taking Responsibility, (2) Stepping into your Power, and (3) Letting go of Judgement and Blame. Together, these 3 components teach you that anything you can dream of is within your reach.
You can get UNSTUCK!
You can create SUCCESS and ABUNDANCE!
Stop coming up with excuses, and start strategizing your options!