Do you know you have been lied to? Repeatedly… And you’ve bought into these lies; slowly over time… and now you just accept these lies as the truth… You’ve heard this lie so many times that now you believe it… and what’s even worse is you now beat yourself up… all the time… because of this lie.
On a daily basis, you have thoughts like “I’m not good enough”… or “This is too hard”… or “why is it easy for every one but me?”
DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF?
Are you aware that all those thoughts you believe are lies? And now beating yourself up, feeling guilty, feeling less than worthy or capable… all because of the insidious lie that you’ve been taught to believe is true.
Let’s see if we can help you spot the lie?
Do any of these sound familiar?
- Easy, low monthly payments!
- Only 5 minutes a day! It’s easy
- Just take this pill and you will lose weight… It’s as easy as that!
- Easy as 1…2…3!
- Join this website and find your true love… It’s easy!
Everyone wants the easy way! And Marketers know that they “sell” you all the time on how easy it is.
Have you every bought something just because you thought it would be easy? Me too! Like me, you bought into the “Easy-Syndrome”, as I call it.
And here’s the really horrible thing about Easy-Syndrome…
When you buy something because it seems ‘easy’, and you don’t get the advertised benefit, what happens? If you’re like me and most people, you blame yourself. And over time, you learn to believe these second lies that you tell yourself… “I’m not good enough”. “I couldn’t stick with it”. “I am obviously not smart enough (or good enough… or attractive enough) to stick with something this easy!
You bought the EASY lie… and now you’re stuck in EASY-Syndrome blaming yourself when it’s not as EASY as it seems.
If you read my blog on a regular basis, you see me write this sentence all the time…
It’s simple, but it’s not always easy.
Everyone wants easy… But if you look at anything worthwhile… or anyone who has the success (or money… or fame… or credit) that you want… you start to realize the path to greatness is relatively simple… but it’s not always easy
It took me a long time in life to learn this… Every time something got too hard, I stopped working on it… Every time I had to put in more effort that I thought I would have to, I questioned whether I really wanted it (what every IT was).
It’s time to change your frame of reference…
Most of what you want in life is SIMPLE… BUT not always EASY!!!!
- You want to lose weight… Stop eating junk and processed foods… Just eat simple healthy foods?
- You want to have energy… Build time into every day to work out… Any workout? Just do it!
- You want to have financial freedom… Start an online business on the side?
Here is what I know for sure!
Your frame of reference is what is holding you back!
The best things in life are simple… but not always easy!
You have bought into the lie that everything should come easy!
And as a result, you feel like a failure when life isn’t as easy as it’s been advertised!
When I first hired a business coach and got my business started, there came a day when I reached a level of deep disillusion… I reached a point, where it wasn’t easy for me… I was pushing through new skills that I had to master, and it wasn’t easy for me learning these new skills… And as a result, I felt discouraged and my self-esteem plummeted.
But I knew that I had BE the person I wanted to be… and I knew I had to DO the work to get to the next level in order to HAVE.
Remember my formula – BE+DO=HAVE
My formula is how I broke through my resistance… And it’s what I teach in my GO-Global Coaching program. And it’s one of the skills that everyone who coaches with me has to learn.
You are not defective… You are not broke… You are not a failure… You’ve just been fed the lie that everything is easy…
But anyone who’s been through a tough time in their life and came out the other side has learned that the way out it pretty simple… but it’s not easy! It takes willpower, grit, skill, and usually help from others.
That’s where my GO-Global coaching program comes in!
GO-Global is my coaching program that teaches you in 1-year how to think and act like a successful entrepreneur by DO-ing and BE-ing a successful entrepreneur. It’s not too late for you to join this program. If you are ready to look yourself in the mirror and be proud of the person you are BE-coming every day to DO what is required to have your dreams, then reach out for help. Hit reply, and let’s talk! Send me your name, phone number and best time of day to reach you. If you are outside North America, send me your Skype ID and we can talk for free!